Sunday, 18 May 2014

Made For More



Sex has become so normal in the world we live in. It's alarming!!! we can no longer sit back and contribute to the problem or fold our arms as though it does not exist. In the TV series "I love Lucy" ages ago, even though the characters (Lucy played by Lucille Ball & Ricky played by   Desire Arnaz) were husband and wife in the show as well as in real life, for the sake of decency on the show, they slept on different beds. Just imagine where we are in the world now. We have zero modesty and in fact, the more conservative you are, the more boring you are. Not to mention, the but of everyone's jokes. It's totally no big deal to have a child outside wedlock.

"It's not wrong if we are dating and in a committed relationship. Times have changed" never put yourself into the role of a wife before walking down that alter. Indeed, times may have changed but God's word is the same.

FAQ: where does the Bible talk about premarital sex? There's a word for that actually:

FORNICATION:  consensual sexual intercourse between two persons not married to each other —

"Flee fornication. Every other sin a person commits is outside the body, but the sexually immoral person sins against his own body. Or do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit within you, whom you have from God? You are not your own, for you were bought with a price. So glorify God in your body."
-1 Corinthians 6:18-20

"Don’t you realize that those who do wrong will not inherit the Kingdom of God? Don’t fool yourselves. Those who indulge in fornication, yor who worship idols, or commit adultery, or are male prostitutes, or practice homosexuality,"
-1 Corinthians 6:9

"But because of fornication, each man is to have his own wife, and each woman is to have her own husband."
-1 Corinthians 7:2

No matter what the times are saying, no matter what's popular and "in", there will never be a time to go against the word of God.
This also goes to speak on the way we dress. Ladies, there are just some items of clothing you have no business buying, let alone wearing (don't even get me started on posting on social media) if you consider yourself a lady after Gods heart. If your clothes will cause a man to look at you in a sensual/sexual/perverted manner (sin), it will be better to be thrown into a sea with a large stone on your neck...(mark 9:42)

Yes, we live in a highly sexualised world, and every other place we turn there is a sensual advert, book, TV shows that glorify foolishness and everything you can think of. While we cannot control what happens around us, we can control what happens IN us. We have the power to make quality decisions (even though they can be so hard at times). We have the power inside us. There are so many other things to do in a relationship or otherwise without engaging in physical activities. It's a condition of the mind and heart. Be determined at ALL costs to sacrifice your bodies for God…till you say "I do".

Enough of posing cheap and giving ourselves free of charge to guys who are undeserving. Enough of acting like you own your life when God really owns it and we are just managing it till He comes. Enough of forgetting who we really are. Let's go back to the right order of things: love, marriage, sex, & babies. #SexCanWait

NB: Any guy that won't love you without access to your body should be dropped…like a bad habit. Someone else that cares enough to protect your worth will love you for real. Any relationships that have already crossed lines should be re-evaluated and re-dedicated back to God…or dropped in cases with unwilling to commit relationships. You were made for more. 

Let God have your mind, body and spirit. Act like He literally follows you everywhere...because He does. (A guy also loves a woman with standards. Get some. They're free).

I love you. I mean well. You have the power in you. Close your legs and open your heart to God.  You are beauty-FULL!!! #SexCanWait

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